What makes a woman sexy?
If we were to use the clichéd response, that it is, in the eyes of the beholder, we would get nowhere. Let us be real about one thing: appearance matters and plays a huge role when determining if a woman is sexy.
It was on Facebook, that this comment, made by a woman of course, was noted:
…Some women use their phat ass and big titties to throw in a man’s face. When y’all gonna learn that’s for short-term gain? I don’t have none of that but I got confidence! There aint nuthin sexier than confidence and I aint gotta throw it in nobody’s face!!! Men if u can’t handle that then it suxx to be u!
Confidence is sexy. Very sexy. If you are one of the rare breeds, then even arrogance and cockiness get your juices flowing. A man or a woman who exudes any of these qualities will always be alluring to the opposite sex and usually hated envied by their own.
Any woman who uses her tits and ass to get attention can be seen as a one trick pony, that is, if they do not have anything to accompany the physical assets they already have.
As you read, the poster mentions that she has none of that. That is the wrong statement to make. She does. She just may not have the sizable or the desired amount most men are drawn to or appreciate. Being marginalized into the “average” category can affect a woman’s outlook on what should be sexy and or appealing.
There are ways to be appealing, to exhibit sexy, if you will, with the right skills, confidence and look. This is not what we are tackling today. The issue right now are women who are blessed with tits and ass.
What is even sexier than stand-alone confidence, is a woman who has the tit and ass to match. To take it further, women who possesses these four qualities (and there is the potential for more but right not let us keep it basic), will be the ones who are more appealing: nice figure (breasts and ass), brains, confidence and personality. We already know that the inward person is what really appeals to the outward man. But in all honesty, do not discount the role that tits and ass play.
This is so evident in what we see all around us. Celebrities enhancing their assets through surgeries or exercise, the huge influx of “video vixens” that are idolized for their huge tits, small waists and large asses or the need to show off the assets in order to get a man’s attention. Using these assets is not always for short-term gain. Many of these women have trapped acquired men and kept them (or used them for what they could get).
It was not too long ago, especially in Egyptian and African history, that women with hips, breasts and ass were revered. Statutes were made in tribute to them, ceremonies were held because of them and men were enamored with them. Their voluptuous shapes indicated their fertility and fertility was desired in a woman.
What the poster may have overlooked is that having tits and ass does not mean having DD’s or a behind like Coco (Ice T did really good). It is about proportion more than anything else. In a study conducted a few years back by Manswers (pretty cool and informative show, Spike TV), it wqw concluded that men found women who had a good waist to ass ratio – smaller the waist, bigger the ass – were sexy. After personally having many conversations with a variety of men and some of my own observational studies , it can be concluded that this is not just a matter of opinion: it has become a matter of fact.
The poster is a black woman and maybe her stance on the issue comes from a deeper realm.
Black women have had this advantage for a long time. Blacks and Latinas. It is seen in the genetics of both races and they are usually recognized for this body type. Some Europeans like Italians and Portuguese are also prone to this body type as well (men out there know this is true). It seems that since the infamous JLo butt shot, that women of all races have been trying to acquire this look.
This is not to say that breasts and ass make up a woman. There should be more to a woman than her physical qualities. If that is all she has to offer than yes it will only be for short-term and her drooping bottom and shriveled up nipples will be evidence of that. When she tries to use her lacking assets to get a man’s attention, she will regret not picking up some other type of skills on her journey to becoming elderly.
“Does this mean I should go get implants?” Only if they make you happy and get you the desired look you want.
That is a choice that you have to make. You do not need large breasts or a huge ass to be sexy or even gain the confidence to be sexy (it might help tho). You just need to be happy with what you have (or going to get). No one is telling you to change who you are or that you are not sexy without (enhancing) these assets.
The jist of it this: tits and ass are most appealing when paired together. You might have both, or one of the other. You might be DD’s or have 45 inch hips. The most important thing is that you know who to bring all of your assets together to make you that sexy ass woman.
Men can agree that there is something sexy about a woman who has tits, ass and confidence to match. Men certainly love confidence in a woman. But they love that confidence even more when a woman has reason to be.
Would love to have one of the resident men comment on this and offer some more insight from the male perspective.
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